The One Who Doesn't Know

It's only when I lose myself, I find myself... but can I really learn to lose myself?

Thursday, May 25, 2006

TMI...

Ever have those moments when you feel like you told someone too much? I think that is something I am a professional at lol. Last night I was speaking with a Dom and the subject of cooking and food came up... I told him I can cook but very little... Then I went into being an extremely picky eater (I've only eaten three kinds of fruits).

Unless he forgot to call back, I think I may have scared him off which isn't surprising because I do it do well. I just wonder, how much should you tell a potential dominant on first meet or conversation? Thanks to TND and SS, I have learned that saying I am not someone's type doesn't make for a good first impression.

Yet I believe you have to give the dominant some warning of what they are getting into... If I was a psychaotic serial killer, I think the dominant would want to be let in on that secret... needless to say, I am not lol.

2 Comments:

At Tuesday, 30 May, 2006 , Anonymous orlando said...

I'm sorry but if your cooking ability, or otherwise, is the predicate for a relationship with a "Dom", then he is not worthy of been called a Dom and certainly not sir or master!

With regards to how much you should reveal, reveal how much you feel comfortable with and no more. At some point, He's going to find out stuff anyway so I wouldn't hold back just because its scared some n'er-do-wells away :)

 
At Sunday, 04 June, 2006 , Blogger Undiscovered Angel said...

I say reveal it all and if he runs you deserve better! I love your blog!

 

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